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Hi, I am Roland's Avatar. How's it going?  I would like to take you on a guided tour of the wonderful virtual world of self help resources that  Roland has to offer!

Being a lifelong educator ( a home schooling dad and 20 year graduate school lecturer), he has a lot to say about education,


This is his Santa book
THE Parenting book
so  people frequently ask him about parenting.


So he made this blog that combines answers to parent's questions with some resources for studying and teaching math and science  to your kids (and yourself).





Then he has begun another blog with some physics resources. And a really cool picture of the earth from orbit.









Looking for answers?

 Want to talk to a Roland?




Text on Sunday. You must be 18
This is the place to ask a question every Sunday morning .Just click here to go to our sister site and look for the free chat. Roland has Livechat for texting. He is here live from 7 to 9 AM (West Coast time).  Just look for the links at the top or in the right sidebar. You can text a question or ask a question at LiveChat Sunday









Ask me a question at live chat every Sunday!

The guy at the keyboard with earphones on is Roland! He started his radio show in San Francisco almost 23 years ago. Every since, he has volunteered his time and effort to help people find their spiritual roots, cope with stress, and heal relationships. He is a pastor, but he does not work for a church. (Some people send a small donation to help him keep going. Mostly he pays for the airtime and Internet himself).






Got a question about a relationship? Dating and courtship? Marriage? Improving communication and healing a relationship?   Look in the right sidebar for popular posts. You can also visit Healing Relationships. Roland has dozens of blog posts, articles, tips and strategies for improving relationships. 

Here is the link to Healing Relationships. So let's just go a head and click on the Healing relationships link and take a look.

You have probably already guessed that this is by far Roland's most popular blog!
People come from all over the world who are having relationship and marriage issues. At his blog you will find (in the right sidebar) links to his most popular articles and posts.



You will also find how to preview free and order his popular book The Myths and Mysteries of Marriage: Making Relationships Work.





 
Got a questions about anger management, upset, unhappiness, pain management, coping with stress or about Christian meditation? 

Let's go to the 24/7 Self Help Resource Center. This is our hub, where you can find information about all of our resources.

But the best part of the resource center is

The meditations!

Roland has been researching an developing them for over 20 years.

They are mindfulness meditations based on spiritual principles.

There is a basic meditation,
one for stress,
one for anger management,
and one for pain management.

Roland likes to say that the practice of the meditation is the bread and butter of your daily walk.



I almost forgot the best of all - you can actually hear Roland on the radio talking about parfenting solutions, conquering stress, healing relationships, single parent parenting, home schooling, college, and much more.

Listen to Roland on BlogTalk Radio anytime 24/7 by going to the audio archives.





Would you like professional coaching, parenting advice, another opinion or some feedback?

Visit Roland's Virtual Office at Liveperson. He's available for texting, email and phone consultation.


Do you want ultra confidential counseling online. Go to Roland's virtual office for livechat or telephone.

Want to talk to Roland by phone?  Go to his Liveperson Virtual Office.


Got a simple question?

Text Roland your question. You must be 18 . 











Hope you enjoyed the tour. Now you are on your own. Have fun.












Whoops, I almost forgot  .  .  .  .  . .

Pastor Roland has written two books about parenting (you know, questions about homework, discipline, video games and so on).







Positive parenting strategies

  
Check out Roland's classic first edition of My Daughter Does Not Want to Clean Her Room: a Handbook for Parents and Kids available exclusively at  CafePress.  Room cleaning, single moms, advice for dads, and much more. Preview the classic quality paperback edition now


My Daughter Does Not Want to Clean Her Room: a Handbook for Parents and Kids is available in quality paperback exclusively at Cafe Press.

Click here to go to CafePress for the handsome quality paperback edition

Want it in eBook for a discount price, visit Scribd.com 

Want it right away, sent as a pdf attachment to an email? Roland will send it to you as a token of his appreciation for a donation of any amount.

 



 Written in the tradition of LePetit Prince and Jonathan Livingston Seagull, this beautiful little book can be read as a heart warming story; but like Le Petit Prince, it also is filled with profound insights and meaning. Santa's Take on Parenting can be read over and over, and it makes a great gift.
  • Shadow Santa and Mrs. Claus as they demonstrate their skills in gently but firmly guiding two kids who are visiting with them.
  • Find out the secrets to their success. 
  • Discover what Santa's skills are and why they work. 
  • Let Santa and Mrs. Claus be your mentors! 

   Incidentally, just as parenting is a year round job, so is learning and developing your parenting skills! Order the book now. Don't wait until the holidays. 



Now at Barnes and Noble Nookbook in color!


Special offer!

  Roland needs help. This is a volunteer effort on his part, and your gift helps support his radio program and internet outreach. 

  Send a gift of any amount to keep Roland's radio program on the air, and receive a free pdf. of any one of Roland's e-books listed below as a token of our appreciation.
    To take advantage of this offer:

  1) Click on the Donate button below and follow the instructions.
  2) When Roland is notified of your donation, he will send an e-mail so he can find out which e-book you would like to receive. So, please add chaplainroland@gmail.com to your spam filter's Allow list so you can receive his e-mail. Roland will send you the eBook you request right away by email.


The following e-books are part of this offer:

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Roland's books are also available in eBook for a reduced price. Look inside the books and order to download or transfer to a mobile device at Amazon.com.


Click here to preview the book in paperback or Kindle at Amazon.com


Roland's new 318 page book The Myths and Mysteries of Marriage, everything on relationships from A to Z, is available in eBook to download to your computer or mobile device.  














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Enjoy! See ya!




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